Reply To: Censership and conformity

You don’t need to find a source but look at how people treat each other. I mean just look at shidduchim. I was watching a wedding and I can almost promise you the couple got married cuz they were wealthy. Or in the same “class” of wealth. they are in the same status so they “chose” each other. I saw alot of pride and excitement at “making it” like they are so “perfect”
There’s a lot of this in how people treat each other especially around materialism. Try walking into a store in one of our communities not dressed in the latest outfits. People won’t treat you like a human being. It’s a an extremely cruel culture. And sometimes when people treat me personally with kindness I’m like wait I didn’t have to measure up to your impossible standards to be treated with decency. Wow