Our seminary teachers do not teach us that kollel is the only way to go, they show us something called emes. and I feel I WANT to marry someone learning because that is what HaShem wants not what people have told me. the more emuna you have the less hishtadlus you have to do, so If you truly believe HaShem will support he will. It says man should work for bread, they explain it either as they work on torah (learning) and HaShem will support, but if someone doesnt feel that is right for them they can work for bread. so you will get the same bread it just depends what you put your work into.
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