I make it a habit not to judge others and leave that to Hashem, but make sure not repeat her mistakes. As I said, I DO NOT CONDONE WHAT SHE IS DOING AND THINK SHE IS 100% WRONG.
What I have actually been saying on here is that you should respect other piskei halacha, not that you should allow anti-halachic views into the mix. There is a big difference and I hope you can see it. If not, please let me know and I will detail what I mean.
Intellegent, I never said what she was doing was ACCEPTABLE, but I did say that I accept HER. I do not think that I am the person to out her to the community. In most cases, it is better to remain silent as I do not think pushing her off the derech is the thing to do. In most cases, you out someone because they are doing thigns wrong AND being a bad influence on others. In this case, its just her (and her husband).