Squeak, my husband doesnt believe in mixed swimming and immodest dressing, nor that shmiras einayim and negiah are not worth keeping. You obviously don’t know anything about MO. If you want to say that because some MO people do those things that makes it a MO thing, that would mean Charedim believe in abuse and tax evasion.
My husband believes in MO philosophy and now follows a MO rav. He was so glad to leave yeshivish society because of the attitude and hypocrisy.