**************”parnassa is min hashamayim”
Then why bother to send delegations to collect.
Why make support deals with in-laws?
Why look for a “rich” shidduch? **************
hishtadlus.
read Shar HaBitochin in Chovos Ha Lvovos who explains the concept at length.
“parnassa min hashamayim” is a primary fundamental of Yiddishkeit. it is crucial that you understand it