Zalmy,
“I try to do my best to address other posters here (and their opinions) with respect, even if i disagree with them.”
From all the posters who have an anti chareidi agenda, your posts rank high up on the list of nastiness, viciousness & disrespect.
“I probably went to the same “chareidi” (we never had that word back then) yeshivos many of the posters here probably went to. most people would classify my dress as “yeshivish” (for the sake of reference, not because it really matters), and i consider myself a part of the “chareidi” community.”
Now it all makes sense.