Nobody:
Well said (as usual).
Sleepless: Why don’t you have your daughter place it on student loans (if its accredited). If she wants it so much, have her pay for it.
If you can’t afford it, why in the world are you thinking of paying for them? Is it fair to the rest of your (assuming you have more) children for them to have to cut back for the sake of these? Or is it right that you will pay less tuition due to sending your child to EY?
Good luck whatever you end up doing. You may build your child better and help them in the process of becoming a mentch by saying “NO” than any seminary could ever do.