charlie- how do you know me so well??
moish- I’m a (former)perfectionist as well. It takes a lot to overcome. It’s really in essence an insecurity. You’re so terrified of failing… I’m still a perfectionist in many areas and too many things irritate me. But I’ve really learned that a little gets you a lot in yiddishkeit. Hashem really helps you and carries a lot of the weight
and moish- you’re far from the perfect bum cuz you’ve got all that guilt… and you’re on theYESHIVAworld.com 😉
so you may as well dump the whole attempt- it failed miserably