“Go take a look at Chasidishe marriages. The simcha and happiness in palpable for anyone to see, something you don’t sense nearly to the same degree by other general (frum) populations.”
With all due respect to your opinion, it is not even remotely the same thing that I have observed. And btw, you have NO idea what credentials I have or do not have. For all you know I could BE Yael Respler (I’m not) and playing devil’s advocate in order to get a stimulating conversation going. I am perfectly ok with your opinion of MY opinion.