don’t take it so to heart – sometimes what you think sounds great, doesn’t sound great to the ‘hearing’ mom in law – that’s why it’s so bashert, i remember once, i gave information to somebody, and to me i was absolutely raving and saying the girl was the nicest girl, with the wonderful midos, smart, pretty, whatever u could want ( i really felt that way)… and she took it, oh nobody can be that great, she must be lying…..and somehow the shadchan got back to the girl’s mom and said she didn’t like the information, and the girl’s mom thought i said something ‘iffy’……freaked me out – but there was nothing that i said wrong – it was just her ‘take’ on it….so my advice to you is the old fashioned line, when the ‘right’ one comes, they will ask the right people, they will like what they say, and it will work out. Just daven and know that Hashem is the only one who can help. Ain Od Milvado
Menu