Tzippi:
Not to drag this thread into a different direction, (SJS has tried this one) There is a great deal of pressure in our society to get married. Many people are just not interested (don’t feel up to the task, Ben Azzai, Boys are below them, etc.). I don’t consider that to be a problem in of itself.
However, we (as a Klal) will have to figure out a place in our society for people (specificly women & the shidduch crisis, but also men) who a frum, normal, but not married and have no plans to do so.
As for the OP, perhaps they (your examples) are correct not wanting to get married?