That being said, where are all these older boys.
They are around. I know many of them. You tend to forget about them, or chalk them up as “There must be something wrong if they are not married”. They do not seek the shaddchanim and singles events as aggressively as the girls. They justify their inability to find the right one by claiming “I’m trying to become more financially sound 1st” or “I can’t get married before I get my degree”.
That claim is preposterous.
No sir, the age gap theory is preposterous. But since you made YOUR statement first. Please prove it FACTUALLY
Oh, and where is your license to judge which claim is relevant, factual or preposterous?