>>If I have my own personal hangups, you as a shadchan should still respect that<<
I do, please note how I differentiated and made categories 2 AND 3 above. A boy once told me “Listen, No redheads”, I’m not going to lie to him about that one, as it is a hangup which he would not get over. However, when someone tells me that their age range is 22-25, I might still set them up with someone who is 21, if I believe that after they meet the response would be something to the effect of “wow, your 21, you seem older”. In cases like this the person has a “paper hang-up” i.e. when written on paper it bothers them, however in reality they could care less.
AZ, Do NOT use this post as your soapbox for your agenda