Something that’s been mentioned in this thread has only made the problem even more clear. Being a connoisseur of sorts of single malt scotch whiskys, I enjoy sipping on a small glass at a kiddush while having a conversation. But the whole concept of “shots” is absurd. Nobody takes shots because they enjoy the taste; you take a shot for one purpose only: to get inebriated.
Alcohol should not be something that is used for the purpose of getting inebriated. When I drink (scotch or beer), it is because I enjoy the taste. If you feel the need to get drunk in order to have fun, you probably have other issues that need discussing.