gavra,
You seem to have missed the point that it is logistically impossible to put all 2,000 students from one of the biggest frum girl schools in the United States into neighboring schools — especially so close to the school year. What exactly was the shaila you asked your Rov? Remember, the answer can only be as good as the accuracy of what was asked.
Additionally, the tenor of your response to areivimzehlazeh, served to discourage <srtong>other Yidden from giving Tzedaka to the school. (Perhaps that was or was not your intent, but it surely was its effect.) Did your Rov pasken you should discourage others from giving such Tzedaka?
And I completely agree with you people should take whatever additional steps to pay tuition. But what if even with such additional steps, including a working wife, if basic needs remain unmet?