where in the kesuba does it say that the WOMAN has to bring the money in to support the family? As far as I know, the MAN is the one who should bring the money in. This is all the way back in history! If it is not enough to make ends meet or the wife is willing to work, than so be it.
But I see so many friends of mine whose husbands are “learning”, trying to manage with a full time job and taking care of their kids.
I do not think supporting your family while your husband is learning meant you barely managing with housework, getting the kids out to school, suppers, homework, and actually taking care of YOURSELF!
How did this mentality change in such a crooked way?
(momof4 not talking to you directly, just to the klal)