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AZ:
I already have said, I feel terrible for the girls. Especially those who were snookered and fell for the “crisis” mentality. The poor girls who settled, who took miserable abusive spouses, who settled for families more appropriate for the…. Girls who are trapped in a hamster wheel of abuse with nowhere to turn. Some of those very signatures you are touting simply wipe their hands from disasterous marriages.
That is why:
For all girls, parents of girls, advisors of girls etc. Please DO NOT feel pressured to settle and fall for the glitz and glamor three page newspaper spreads about a “Crisis”. Unless one of the 70 signatories of the AGE GAP campaign guarantees (Nafsho keshurah benafsho) to personally turn over heaven and earth to protect you from a bottom-of-the-barrel spouse/family, DON’T DO IT. Please, I beg of you, don’t throw away your life, HAVE EMUNAH IN HASHEM.