I wasnt referring to lying, theres a big difference between lying and just avoiding the truth. this really isnt what I had in mind but say for a shidduch (this is a hypothetical question) if theres a quiet person or a very quiet person. the very can make a big difference. if the person is actually on the quieter side, maybe closer to very quiet, but if you say the person is very quiet the shidduch wont even be considered, is it better to be more truthful if you know in the long run theres a chance of it working out?
NOTE: a shidduch is not a “general” example, and it wasnt really what I had in mind, do you get what I’m trying to say? I’ll try to come up with something better.
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