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It was only a matter of time. Hi AZ

It bothers me to no end all of you who play G-d. Setting universal standards, determining who should and who should not go out/get married due to their age. Last I checked age had no connection to maturity or responsibility.

AZ it is a chutzpa to put aside a reasonable concern about people preparing for marriage because of the numbers you claim to have in front of you.

It is also absurd to believe you are against the video-conferencing dating because it is not the age-gap (yes, I saw that). The fact that you are only in favor of YOUR way is quite ga’avadik of you (but we knew that already from your comments to the moderators). I also find it weird that here you claim not to be a man of numbers, yet elsewhere you are referred to as a “perhaps the leading exponent of the mathematical theory”, go figure.

Despite what you say here, you have an underlying bias towards the age gap and the NASI project as a whole. You don’t want the shidduch crisis to be over, YOU have a need to fix it. There are fundamental differences between the two, and it is option two which annoys me to no end.

I hope the mods would be kind enough to end the misery now, rather than wait for 400 posts in 3 days again to prove that such a discussion with said individual is worthless.