From my attempts to redd shidduchim, I would say the single biggest cause of the many girls who can not get a date is the fact that the shidduch is always redd to the boys 1st. The average boy seems to have a list of girls to look into thats almost as thick as the Brooklyn phone book. It sometimes takes, weeks, or months for a boy to get around to looking into a girl. If we could somehow get these girls off lists and on dates, we wouldnt have so many older singles. Redd the shidduch to the girls FIRST and I guarantee you will have many more girls going on dates.
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