Feif Un; anonymrs; etc.. I must have not been clear enough.
“Though I cannot stress enough, the importance of liking the general appearance of your future spouse.” With this I mean that one should be attracted to ones spouse.
That goes without saying, and I’m surprised at how I was so misunderstood.
The ranting in my original post, is about those think they have to
get a super model and are medaktik Kchut Hasa’arah, on every Kneitch.
that is SHTUSIM!!!
HB”H happened to create all the wives of the Avos to be Beautiful.
To say though, that yaakov chose her for her looks?!!
If anyone feels the need to find a haskamah for their own Shitos,
please ask your rov first, before you attempt to Translate the Torah in your favor.