“I am not covering up for any man or any other woman – just for ME.”
SJS, I can certainly understand that stance, I like to do things for ME too. However, I consider this issue, in addition to the other, halachik considerations noted, as part of my Bein Adam L’Chaveiro. I daven to Hashem that no one should have an inappropriate thought precipitated by my actions/dress, just as I am careful that my actions and manner of speech make others feel welcome and at ease, when appropriate. The Bein Adam L’Chaveiro component of Tznius is very important to me.