AZ: I actually wrote my comment before yours was visible in this topic. It’s currently not accepted as necessary to pay the shaddchan after three dates. Therefore if you do pay them you are likely to get better service from them. If you want to say that everyone should pay the shaddchan after three dates it would be different. I’m not particularly against the idea but I don’t think it would work b/c most other people would be against it. Also what I was thinking about which side would pay if it broke off is that maybe the side doing the breaking off should have to pay $300. I know if a girl that I went out with more than three times decided she didn’t want to go out again (assuming I did) it would be bad enough without having to pay another $150.
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