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January 6, 2010 6:09 pm at 6:09 pm
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jewish and working 22
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AZ:
The shidduch problem is not the concept of getting more shadchanim to be involved. Its the concept of having shadchanim involved!
The ideal process should be that the shadchan knows both individuals, does not have to do background search, and gives the boy the girls number. This concept of a shadchan meeting with a boy/girl for 5 minutes (or up to 15 minutes) and then ordering an FBI background check on them is what’s wrong. No matter how much money one throws at people the process still WILL NOT WORK.