where in the world do you get the idea that shalom bayis is a result of the shadcahn system. a recent discussin listed 3 top reaons for shalom bayis
1. Internet
2. Workplace relationships
3. Blackberry’s
(not my opinion-just a comment from Rav Weinberger)
I guess these are also due to the shadchanimn negligence.
question: KiloBear
Are you a professional that deals in Shalom Bayins issues and thus are making such comments from extensive first hand experience, or are you just making totally baseless accusations.
I have no doubt that there are some few and far between instances of gross negligence by the shadchan. To use a broad brush and paint the system and ALL shadcahn with that accusation is well…….gross negligence.