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January 11, 2010 5:56 pm at 5:56 pm
#672668
AZ
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Tzippi:
It is very kind of you that you drive a friend, trully a chesed.
I’m curious
Is it one friend or do you have 100 freinds calling you every day to drive them?
Do you do it from 7 am to 1 am on a consistent basis?
When you go to a wedding do it prevent you from speaking to your friends or dancing with the chosson/ Kallah?
Does it prevent you from having even a semblance of family life?
Does your friend call you up demanding why you haven’t returned her phone call or driven her everwhere she needs to go, because after all you “owe” it to her?
I’m just asking……..