Hello99, I agree with the last part of what you said. The mother of the spy should have called the other mother if she was really concerned – not reported it to the school, if there was a toeles. But the truth is, the spygirl apparently observed NO inappropriate behavior, her friend was in a very public place, dressed tziusdikly, not appearing furtive, merely bowling. She should have been dan l’chaf zechus. And I left out the part where the mom WAS in fact threatened that the daughter would be suspended for her behavior. I did not think it was necessary to mention, but I now see it was.
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