AZ. By definition, “ideas” are suggestions for everyone to implement, including everyone else. If each person would do their own thing then nothing will be done to alleviate this suppsed major problem.
To get back on topic of the name of this thread. “Help” as it is writen is clearly an indication that these people are doing more damage than anything else. Don’t involve “outsiders” and when they mix in tell them to mind their own business. I think this “outside help” is a bigger problem than any “age gap”.