what someone said about bzayas apecha tochal lechem- this was a curse and the more someone works, the more “curse” they are bringing on themselves. The way to get rid of the curse completely is by learning in kollel. HOWEVER, this is not an option for everyone, only for the “shevat layvi” of today’s times, and those who cannot manage don’t! Your only harming yourself and your husband. There is nothing to be ashamed of if you can’t- just say you want a ben torah who is working. Also, remember that is should not be looked upon as a something you have to do because everyone is doing it, but rather a very special privilege that not everyone can have.
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