to melechalmaklo
If the shidduch crisis affects the girls more than the boys, shouldn’t the girls be the ones making sacrifices in order to get a shidduch? If the guys have so many choices they have no need to accept anything but what they consider the best. I’m not saying that’s the way it should be, in fact I don’t do any of the things you say boys do when looking for shidduchim, I don’t want my in laws to support me and I would live anywhere that I can make a living. Of course you’re talking about learning boys and I’m a working guy so it’s a whole different situation but bottom line is you can’t place all the blame on the boys. don’t hate the players hate the game.