Jewishsoul. Please link what you want me to see. I have no idea.
Smartcookie. On the chance his situation is so bad, he should get help. that is also the advice you should give him. making excuses for why people did or did not help him, or help him in the way he felt appropriate doesnt make anything better and has absolutely nothing to do with the name of this thread. even if he tries to create a tenuous link by using the term “frum people”.