Well mepal- I’ve been there and done that. yes I am talking more about English guys and we tend to keep things, not majorly private, but not very open either. We see dating as a more private section of our life and to be honest I think that is the way it should be. Obviously every guy needs a friend or friends to discuss it with thats very natural, I had friends and we told each other most things but I’d still call it private…
postsemgirl- yup sounds like just the normal things…about smoking, there is zero reason why it should be cool to smoke absolutely zero. But the fact is that its called a chilled thing in todays society to just “chill and have a cig”. I think it’s because it’s just a don’t careish thing to do. I know it’s unhealthy and I know people will look down at me but I just don’t care two hoots which makes it cool. Sadly not caring what people think about you is called “cool”. Yes I agree that it is a major advantage in a way but it can be a major disadvantage if you have too much of it.