if I were AZ this would be my next post:
you know i am quite sure of my position on the matter of the proper usage of these terms, however i can see i am not convincing anyone. as a matter of fact i can see i am antagonizing a great number of people here in the CR.
now since i have stated the only reason i am trying to convince anyone of anything here is because i want to help these girls and not just to win arguments about ancillary issues, and by antagonizing the very people i wish to enlist in my cause to help these girls, i am hurting the cause.
therefore although i am right and everyone else is wrong, it is more important that i gather as many people as possible to my cause and therefore i will try my best to stop antagonizing the very people i am trying to enlist to help these girls by not calling them agunos, at least in the CR.