tzippi: Is offering compensation to someoe who spends hours tutoring your child also shochad???
Lo Yitzloch: “Sometimes we have to live with a crisis”
Last time I checked chazal went to extreme lengths to enable INDIVDUAL agunos to remarry. Our community is facing a situation of epic proportions.
NO, it’s not a crisis we can live with so long as there is what to be done.
oomis1105: “unbelievable??”
it’s the most obvious thing for individual girls to do. Ask people in the field and see what they say.