oomis: you totally misread. I didn’t she should date a guy age wise appropriate as if she is 4 years older! (remember i’m into close in age shidduchim). The point was the kind of specifics that won’t be deal breakers if she was 27 shouldn’t be a deal breaker when she’s 24. Each individual accordning to their situation.
Be it family, background, and the numerous other issues that might be deal breakers at 19, it’s prudent (becuase of the numbers problem) to date at 24 with a +4 attitude.
Dunno:
1. the vast majority of girls date very few boys more than 3/4 times it is NOT expensive one does NOT have to be rich to do it, and is a very very smart investment to give yourself the best shot to get married.
2. I didn’t put any suggestions how to slow the girls down, for precisely the reasons you mentioned) I just stated the facts. By changing the freezer inevitably the younger girls will collectively be slowed down.
3. Your opinion/my opinion on the freezer really don’t matter. I just wrote that staggering the freezer is a extremely effective way of alleviating the age gap problem and is being worked on as we speak (blog).
Glad to see some discussion on the real issues.