Oomis:
Aries:2756:
If you want it to be the fourth date so be it. There is a point in time at which is is clearly a solid suggestion. Offering the Shadchan compensation for reaching that point is simply a very effective method of getting attention for your OWN daughter. No one is saying what parents have to do, I made a simple obvious suggestion of what parents COULD do to help their OWN daughter. Do you debate the that it works, because I know for a fact that does.
BYTW interesting to see we have left the purpose of the thread which was to discuss real solutions to the crisis….