Mz. Cheerful:
And Leah Immainu was “expected” to marry Eisav. Sometimes you don’t marry who you are expected to, and it is a bracha (not to compare learning boys to Eisav C”V, just to use the concept).
And always be yourself. The endgame is not to get married to anyone, but to the right one for the real you. If someone fakes it, C”V that someone can just end up unmarried when the truth comes out.
B’hatzlacha.