You need to take your proverbial head out of the golus sand to see the light.
So, Volvie, instead of throwing around ad hominems, please explain it to me.
How is it that having a “Mother’s Day” is an excuse to “kick your mother to the curb” the other days of the year, but having Tisha B’Av is not an excuse to “kick mourning for the loss of the Bais HaMikdash to the curb?”
The Wolf