cherrybim:
You are making a cholent out a straightforward traditionally defined translation of the MINIMAL requirements of frumkeit. They are:
*Shabbos
*Kashrus
*Taharas Mishpacha
A person can be the most tzanua person, but eating chicken from a Puerto Rican bodega makes that person NOT FRUM.
A person can host parlor meetings galor and have every gadol sign your guest book as an erliche yid, but if you break the laws of tahara mishpacha, that person is NOT FRUM.
A peron can ask shailos and all that but when crunch time comes and the six million dollar deal has to be signed at 8:55 Friday night or six months of work go down the drain, they give in and are Michallel Shabbos, that person is NOT FRUM.