Being that I am a girl who is not a size 10/12, here’s what I have to say. I think it’s important for the shadchan to know both the girl and the boy so she can figure a way to tell each of them about the other. From a girl’s perspective, don’t think we like going out with boys when we dont know how “big” they are either. Not everything is about what the BOY wants, and how the BOY likes it… Think about the girl once in a while.
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