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Dear mr. yeshivaguy222, i have a question for you. what would you have done if the shadchan had told you that the girl was overweight. I am sure that you would have given an immediate no despite all the wonderful info you have found out. maybe the shadchan knows the girl well and her heart cries for her and her lack of dates despite having ala meilos except for being overweight which has become the biggest crime of the century. maaybe she thought that if you met the girl you might like her despite the weight and have a second thought about a second date. i’d be willing to bet this girl does not get a second date very often. It is hard to be a girl in the shidduch scene and being overweight makes it pretty much impossible. My heart cries for the poor girl! I truly hope she finds a much better person than you to marry!!!!