“However, there’s a certain feeling of it being the “first night” and many ppl feel that they want the night to be spent in a hotel setting.”
Theres no reason why anyone should need a hotel to make a night with their wife or husband special weather its the first night or any other time. I wish we could ban hotels altogether (except as emergency places to stay). Couples shoudlnot be spending nights in hotels for “romantic getaways”. They shouldbe at home bulding a bayis neeman.