I loved Be happy’s moshol. Excellent.
“ON a different note i also realized that people who claim to be openminded and accepting are everything BUT that when it comes to people that are frummer or keeping more chumros than them. Just an interesting observation! “
That is probably because some of the people who are keeping those chumros, generally tend to think of themselves as frummer (read: religiously better) than the person whom you think is not so openminded. No one likes to be looked down upon. And if you are honest with yourself, you will admit that this is how it sometimes is in the more charedi circles.