“And no teen goes off the derech because life was blissful…you have to admit there was something there “
So what? Everyone has challenges in their lives, some more some less. Life is not a free for all. It’s a precious gift and whatever we have is a present and what we don’t have is not meant for us. We need to take what we have and utilize it to the utmost, not cry that we don’t have.
“and the way to get them back is DEFINITELY NOT to start blaming them that they had a choice”
I’m not trying to bring them back. They’ll come back if they want to and when they want to.
“And again i’m going to ask this question for anyone to pls answer what does kids going off the derech have to do with mentally not well people?”
That precisely was the point of my previous post- mental health has nothing to do with kids going off the derech.