“oomis, I tend to think an eyeroll regarding the opinion of another’s husband doesn’t do much to increase the esteem of said person for spouse. That’s just my opinion, and something I am mapkid on. If you don’t think it’s important, I understand”
I am very makpid on people having kovod and esteem for their spouses. That does not require me to agree with what their spouse thinks or says, and I can feel that the person is expressing an opinion that is a little unreasonable. Had I called ames’ husband, “stupid,” or “ignorant,” you would be right to think I was insulting him. However, I was basically sighing, “what will they think of next,” and I don’t feel I was being disrespectful. That being said, I reiterate that if AMES herself and not you (the unsolicited chauvinist for her feelings)feels I insulted her husband, then I sincerely apologize to her, as that was certainly not my intent. And for the record, I certainly DO think that’s important.