Tzippi, if that’s the case, then five years is beautiful. Let’s stop counting years. Let’s rather talk about working with children. It’s VERY hard to work with two. -ive done it. It’s pure mesiras nefesh.
But once you have three children, it’s almost impossible to stay a calm mother, manage suppers and all, plus work.THAT’S where people fool themselves.
Men should definitely learn as long as they’re able to. But not on the expense of their wife and kids.