Why are we all making such assupmptions? i know families of all types. Some of where the father is still learning, hes for sure in 50’s and the house was well, lets say a little hefker not because he was learning but cuz of the mother. and lots of s”d the kids are unbelievable. Then you have families with the parents involved, father’s only learning… mothers supporting and kids don’t turn out that well. You have families that fathers are working mothers full “stay at home mom” and torahdik and children bum out and families with the same set up and children turn out amazing.
IN short There are TONZ of factors to raising kids and building a home. How can we all pin it on one factor.
Ch’V im not minimizing Torah. “??? ?? ???? ??? ????? ??? ????”