aries2756:
The Hashem isnt with me on vacation problem is truly a machlah. I know otherwise frum people that when it comes to honeymoon, or stam vacations go to beaches and such. Theres no Heter and many people are just living a double life. What happens in Miami stays in Miami or anywhere else for that matter. And people are shocked when terrible tragedies happen in the community. Keep the Torah and you wont have problems!