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Who needs a picture??? Take a walk on the avenue and see who Hashem puts together, it is very interesting how “OUR” perceptions of a good shidduch or even of beauty have no basis in reality when you see Hashem’s work and his sense of humor. How many times do you see a couple and say “I don’t get it? After going out with so many girls this is the one he picked?” and vice a versa. Or you see this short guy with this tall girl or a very tall guy with the tiniest of wives. You also see that Hashem blinds people when it comes to shidduchim and hence the phrase “love is blind”. How many times did you see a gorgeous young woman with a plain guy or a handsome young man with a plain jane?
People should trust in Hashem and stop being so shallow that they need to see photos before accepting a shidduch. Are we running a modeling agency that this should be a requirement to get the job of husband or wife? Shtusim!