You aren’t allowed to lie about a shidduch, but you don’t have to offer the info -they have to ask. Saying tell me about him/her isn’t called asking – they have to ask specifics. Also telling white lies or outright lies -if the person is made to think differently than the reality it’s Genevas Daas. All the cases of the gemorrah that’s mutter fall under Sholom. Redding a shidduch and lying doesn’t fall under the catergory of Sholom.
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